Welcome 2018..

Today is the last day of this year..there’s only some hours distance to reach our Destination i.e., 2018

This year was Great, I got to know so many people, I got to do so many Good things, I got to know so many new things!! I hope that tomorrow’s sunrise will demolish all the bad things and their memories and bring Good..

I hope, the next year will be much much better & bring joy & happiness to everyone’s Life, it take me nearer to my dream to become a better person in Life!! After every 365 days tenure, a new year begins, but this time, it is some what different, something different with a touch of Magic..

I hope, 2018 will bring lots of adventure, with a better understanding and I, be able to help more and more people, making them smile..And do something for the betterment of the society!! I believe I can..I can make something adorn & serve my purpose of Life..

I’ll try my best to become a better writer.., I’ll try to make people believe in themselves & make them love thyselves & their country, their motherland.

I’ll showcase all the good things, people do & make them proud of themselves, by appriciating them & try my best to be altruist!!

And I pledge to do the maximum I can..!!

Wish you all a Very Happy & prosperous New Year..

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Reference to Best Friend”

This post is a reference to my poem Best Friend..

I want to share some of the things of my personal life.., just because it motivated and inspired me to get through all the things I wasn’t able to understand.. maybe it inspire you all too..

I’m a kinda person who didn’t had any Friend till 9th grade , True Friends”(presently I’m in 11th).. I was unable to distinguish what it actually meant by the word “Best Friend” and what it feels like to be a “Best Friend” in ones life.. even I could not say that I have had “Friends”.., because I actually didn’t had any True!! Like , I was the one who loved the company of Teachers more , rather of my fellow mates.. I used to be indulged in all the activities from doing the home work on time, giving it for checking and getting a “Very Good ” Remark.. till doing everything my Teachers told me to do!! I used to talk to everyone in my class..and also I used to share all my activities and things of the previous day to “All” ..but then too, I didn’t had any group I could say , I was a part of!! I skipped many school trips , just because I didn’t knew , with whom I would travel and all….

But then..,I got a girl in my class…who loved sarcasm, was good to everyone, topper… I wanted to be a Friend of hers..but because of her friends , who were too weird and insulted almost everyone..I maintained a distance..I was alone once again…but I was used to it..never cared!!

Then I met another girl who was too good, too Kind, too friendly, she never was angry on anyone..said Sorry , even if it wasn’t her fault!! The Best girl I’ve met till now..(I’m in a convent school). We became good Friends..very Good Friends, she always used to say , she doesn’t have any Best Friend.., but I didn’t let her know that she was my Best Friend!! 2-3 months before, I started ignoring her.. (A week back I came to know that I’m suffering from Bipolar disorder) I took many quizzes online to confirm it., I started feeling that I don’t deserve anything good in my life, at least her..I cried for I didn’t wanted to lose her, but at the same time I felt that it is for her Good that she should get away from me!! Always I felt that she don’t deserve a person like me or maybe I didn’t talked to her because I didn’t wanted to be used to her(I know I won’t find anyone like her in my entire life)

Yesterday she sent me a  message, lemme show it to you-

Astha listen everyone in this world has got some of the other problems but if everyone starts taking tests like this then they will end up finding numerous disorders for themselves…I understand that you have got some problems and you think that you r not appropriate for the things you have but dear you r wrong… Stop thinking so much about the negative aspects of your life..

Life is the biggest turmoil but if you look deeper you’ll get that this isn’t a turmoil instead it’s a bliss to be celebrated, cherished and lived Everyday… You have a spectacular life, don’t just let it become a piece of shit just because of your stupid thoughts…

If you feel that you don’t deserve to be happy then think about the people in your life..

Don’t they deserve happiness your mother, father, brother etc? Have u ever thought what they feel when they see the once ever cheerful Astha turned into an introvert, silent and depressed Astha..

I don’t know whether you are the same at your home as you are in the school so I can’t exactly tell what your parents feel but it really kills us (friends) when we see you like this…

Please don’t be so hard on yourself… U don’t deserve this so called loneliness, depression and all.. YOU deserve better… I don’t say have self pride but at the same time it also doesn’t mean to have self pity….

If you look at your circumstances , emotions etc you may get a thousand things to be upset but you’ll also get a reason to be happy… It may be a single reason but that reason will be enough to cherish your life..  you’ve got many people around you who care and love you a lot, don’t let them down by making yourself an introvert person… They all deserve happiness ,love and care but moreover they deserve you… The old cheerful and smiling Astha..

Pls get back to yourself…

And if there’s anything about me then just leave it no matter how much we argue, fight or spend time with each other I’ll be always beside you as a sister pestering you again and again..  But to see  that also you need to be ASTHA JAIN once again the old one..

I know you are not doing it intentionally but dude remember the one who’s letting the crime be done to him is as responsible as the criminal…

You can get up from this turmoil but only if you are willing to do it…

And first of all stop surfing on net about these shitty things… please I request (beg).

Please get back to the old you I need you , everyone needs you….

Come back I’m waiting…☺

I cried after reading this message for about half an hour,I called her 5 times , but she didn’t picked it up.. Finally I switched to her mother’s number, and Finally she talked to me, I came to know she was desperately waiting for my call..but didn’t get any(some default on my phone) !! Again she sent me a message when I told her my conditions.. As follows –

 

Then just remind yourself that there are many people who need you and your future which awaits you.. You need to fulfil a purpose in your life and hopelessness won’t help, you have faith and hope on yourself and revise all the good moments in your life.. There are people out there who love you and your purpose which is waiting for you..

Your purpose and personality can’t afford to lose you to your stupid thoughts…

Everyone needs a change but that needs to be positive..☺

Cherish what you have and try to earn what you want( positive dreams and aspirations)..

She inspired me to get out of it and I will always be grateful to her!! I actually wonder how can a person be too down to Earth.. I can say that she gave me another life!! It’s not like I want her…but I need her!! Just remember, your words can do miracle..,  You should just know how to use them correctly and kindly!! I’m trying to be normal and back again.. I know she has faced much more in her life..which I can never compare with, I was..say I’m too guilty, just because I made her sad and cry(as I could see in her eyes, she never tells anything about how she felt and all)

 

Versatile Blogger Award

Hey wonderful people.., hope you all are good and enjoying my writings too…  I wanna give a very good news to all of you, so….so….so…..the news is…..

YEAH , I GOT NOMINATED FOR THE VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD!!! That’s a big deal you know.. and someone who felt like I’m a Versatile Blogger is non other than a beautiful writer Swati Mishra , a very good writer and a nation buddy;) she believes in waiting and exploring real self… she write about femenism and the problems teens suffer from..

So…here I begin..

Rules:


7 Facts :

*) My writings are one in the other way always related to me…

*) I want to become an important part of anyone’s life atleast once!!

*) I’m chicken hearted in the sense that I can’t hurt myself(like suicide n all.😈😇)

*) I can not do something which I feel is Wrong, but what others do, even if superiors tell me to do!!

*) Recently learnt a new Trick” ,i.e., to Ignore and Answer people😌

*) I’m an extrovert , like I love participating in differ things and too, I love winning Awards💟

*) I need a person, A person whom I can always be depended on…in sense that I can share my each and every secret with that single person and whom I can trust totally, who won’t break my trust even in the extreme conditions…. who will always be with me ,directing what is good and what not!! With whom I can cry and laugh to the fullest….!!! I don’t need a “Boy friend” , just a “Better Friend” !!!!

So I’m Nominating the great Bloggers…

Hussien

Sreeblogs

Neal

Tag: Getting to know you Blogger Q/A

First of all, wanna thank inkgirlandwords, the creator of The Getting to know me Tag  and also thank you so much AvidObserver , for thinking me this capable to perform this:).. Both are wonderful bloggers !! Do checkout their blogs..:D

So here I begin with my Q/A round😇

1) How long have you been blogging?

1 year and 1 month….😁

2) Do you enjoy Tags?

For Sure, I love getting Awards, this is a kinda Award only😅;) for me.. Me and my father are quite Crazy bout them,they are proof of our achievements, which refresh our good deeds:mrgreen:(m very possessive about my awards!😂;))

3) Do you follow blogs which follow you?

It never mattered me of thinking about this because I never judge anyone by what good/bad he did to me.., it’s only the mentality we follow or the facts we think are same in some..

4) Describe your blog in 5 words.

(General) teen’s positive, motivational, regular diary..

5) How many posts have you made(excluding this one)?

24..😇

6) On a scale of 1-10 , how much you enjoy blogging?

10 !! You know, this is the only place I can share everything with, only place (I refer it like only one”) which motivates me to write more and more..

7) Post some links to blogs you enjoy reading.

Everyone is great in their own way , but if I’ve to answer,Those I remember are

 review author(short stories) 

sweta ojha( MYG)

allaboutyourskin(I’ve told you before I am not at all a girly girl., so I don’t know anything to take care of my skin😟)

…etc

8) Writing or Reading blog posts?

See, I love writing , but I can only write when My mind can’t concentrate on one thing, when it is quite disturbed and I feel like throwing my emotions out of my mind!! Till then , I like to lean on others for adventurous stories, motivational and inspiring and funny too , for making my mind chill;)😄!!

Rules-

Answer the questions given  above.

Credit the Creator of the Tag.

Nominate 5/+ bloggers.

Finally…, I would like to nominate…..

317_angelkris

tajwar fatma

zeckrombryan

stolzajangar

swagat kar

shayra




One Lovely Blog Award

Got nominated for my second beautiful Award.i.e., One Lovely Blog Award!!

Given by a My In border sis , who lives maybe in North East India…,Sotzlajanger ,she’s a wonderful writer ,too a nice photographer 😀 , can check out her blog if you wish to see , what your eyes will definitely love😄.

7 Facts about me:

I am a good speaker and poet(as my friends tell me)😇 and I love Psychology.

I live in the centre of India.

Coincidentally , my birthdate and my parent’s Anniversary date is the same,i.e., 11 July!!

I like the company of humorous people 😅 , also even if don’t show , I love my Bro..

I love Surprises , like if you tell me and then give a chocolate ,i won’t be that happy than when given surprisingly!!

I won’t tolerate if someone blames anyone or anything without having full knowledge bout certain things, for eg if some did the mistake and you are blaming the whole community , I will raise my voice , no matter your post or who you are to me!!

Even if anyone can’t see, I’m trying to become better, a better human, a better friend,a better leader, and of course a better daughter..

I would like to nominate these people for the one Lovely Blog Award –

Soul trance

Thoughts in life

Random Ramblings

Seocopyright

Meditation

Sunil Singh

Bruque

Astha

RohitNag

Madhusudansingh

Shawna

Mustafa

sairaj

Mahima

Diganta misra

Rules-

  • Thank the person who nominated you and link their blog
  • Add the One Lovely Blog Award to your post
  • Share seven things about yourself
  • Pass this on to as many people as you like (max 15)
  • Include this set of rules
  • Inform your nominees

 

The best thing ☺

It’s just Oh my god….❆  1 year over, it was one of my best experience I’ve ever got in learning and doing something new;)

This year gave me 100+ followers(my first follower was 1sigfridsson )from all over the world.., 1 Blog Award, 500+ likes(in just 21 posts, excluding this😅), too good comments and many best things which I’ve never got in my actual world and all this has much worth than anything , at least for me!! I came across so many people ,so much positivity I felt being here, so many people guided me , So..

THANKYOU EVERYONE FOR MAKING MY FIRST YEAR WORTH REMEMBERING..  Love you all:) 

It all started with..

This is my first work on any social network, and the result was great!! Everyone here is THE best and Unique, so many country’s names I learned here😅😂 !! I mostly got betrayed , even from whom I felt were my Friends, so this became my best place to share everything I got to see in my life, even as a teen , I don’t feel depressed .., you know why? Cuz I write, just because of you people who guide me, feel me, and give reviews on my posts , my creations!!

Thankyou all who Liked, commented and Followed me which all definitely motivated me to continue blogging.., here I must thank my brother too,who introduced WordPress to me(he’s the WordPress Event Organizer of my city ✌:) but I’ll not (it’s his job although😂;))  !!  Thank you so much for being and helping me in becoming a good blogger, a better writer and more a better person..:D you all are great:).

Lemme show you something – 

 On Liebster Award” by my classmates..

Thankyou so much people for supporting me:).. People check out my website @asthajain.in 🙂

Liebster Award

 

Got Nominated for LIEBSTER AWARD !! First of all , Thankyou so very much 317_angelkris , I seriously don’t have words to say what you gave me!!

It’s my first Award on WordPress .., which is quite GREAT (at least for Me;)) !! 317_angelkris(https://kristelalicum.wordpress.com/)is one of the wonderful writers I’ve met on WordPress during my journey to be a good” blogger..:) I request you all to visit her blog, I can say you’ll never regret..

 

11 Facts about Me:

I m a fun loving girl, who believes in sarcasm;)😋,

True patriot..

I love being a kid more although I’m a 15yr old (so called”grown” up girl), so behave somewhat childish..

I m not at all a girly girl, but yeah, I overthink and regret things a lot ..

I like dancing and singing although I’m not that good at both !

Slightly believe in horoscopes(slightly! )

Love being insane and too a dog lover..

I get attached to almost everyone who care for me even a little bit.

I love playing kho kho and volleyball and badminton too.

I am a Cancer[😅zodiac]

I’m damn emotional and sensitive, here I don’t mean that I cry after every scene of the flick but I do cry when feel helpless, hopeless, and misunderstood!!

Questions by 317_angelkris:

1) What is your concept of god? Do you take him positively or negatively?

– For this, I would better suggest you all to refer my post Atheist let you be the Judge and decide am I an atheist or a believer , for me it doesn’t matter how much hours you prayed , a man becomes great by what work he possess , by what kinda attitude he keeps..

2)How do you deal with people in your life that you don’t like?

– The best thing is ignoring and controlling.., I mean to say that if you retaliate , they retaliate too.., since forgetting is not possible, the best we can do is ignore what we cannot change.., and who knows, sometimes people change.. eventually!!:D

3) What are you most afraid of?

If say the truth, I’m most afraid of humans.., I’m afraid of betray , I’m afraid of misunderstanding, fake things, mainly Trust!! Not everyone is bad, but the same way not everyone is Great!!

4) What makes you Smile?

 Little little things, just like when a newborn holds your one finger from its small hand.., when my work on which I put my 100 percent comes up successfully, when everyone around me is happy(mainly because of Me)..when little things prove to be too big good changes!!!

5) What is your main reason you write or blog?

– Blogging and writing inspires me to write more and more!! My main motive of life is to make a change , do something for my country and my parents.. And I feel writing can make a big change sometimes, blogging motivate me !! And so I blog and I write, it has become one of my fav hobby now:)

6) Do you believe in love at first sight?

– Here, I’ll say ..No!! According to the studies done, love at first sight isn’t possible, it’s always at the 4th sight . When talking personally , I would say I actually don’t know as Never experienced anything of this sort ❆

7) What inspires you?

– When people are helpless but not hopeless!! When they don’t have anything , but always have faith in themselves , Inspires ME. My blog inspires me, my writings too!

8) What is your motivation in a relationship, pleasing yourself or serving others?

– It actually doesn’t matter, for example if you serve others sincerely, Not because you have to but because you want to…. It is assured that you yourself will feel pleased.. because it is only if the people around you are happy, that you feel content.

9) How do you spend your free time?

– I stalk;)😂😋  , I love stalking people, like I would have never known about a boy in my city who looks similar to Zayn Malik, and yeah, I won’t be knowing Shawn Mendes and Mich boyko too!!!😶😅(I’m not there in the world😌) and too, I checkout my google+ account and check the Zodiac community posts(for me and my friend, and seriously we people enjoy a lot!!)

10) How your perfect day look like?

– Umm.., A perfect day for me would look like a perfectly normal day…not rain nor sunshine…not sadness nor glee……a perfect day is where everything is as usual..sweet and spicy ,with a touch of Magic!!

….Geez, too cheesy 

11) People invest time and energy developing their careers, their bodies and relationships, but often neglect spiritual dimensions of their life. How do you actively pursue spiritual dimensions?

-Whenever alone , I try to think what mistakes I made , What things I did , were they correct or not , Is my motive to live working successfully , and so on!! Sometimes this becomes over , and i think lot much which is nothing but useless..

 

[Thankyou so much Mrudula , she helped me writing some of the answers !! ]

 

Rules of this Award:

*) Thank the person who nominated you for the Award and share link of their blog on your blog.

*) Display the Award on your blog.

*) Provide 11 random Facts about yourself.

*) Nominate 5-11 bloggers whom you think deserve the Award.(who have a less than 200 followers)

*) Answer 11 questions the blogger gave you and give 11 questions to the bloggers you nominated.

*) List these rules in your post.

*) Inform those bloggers by sharing a link at their blog telling they’ve been nominated for the LIEBSTER Award.

Would like to nominate these people for the LIEBSTER award..

#innerspirit

mohammadjavedashar

#thereviewauthor

#stefan M mutuku

#slowpoke

Franzm
…to be continued

Questions for the nominees – 

1 Does blogging replace or enhance journalling?

2 Do you think education , as it’s today , does justice to life and learning?

3 Which of the posts by you or someone else, you like the best?

4 A quote or thing or incident that inspire you the most?

5 Do you like mysteries ? Like that of bermuda triangle , black hole..; if get a chance ,will you go to explore?

6 `Have you ever visited any place just because you saw it in any fiction/series/movie ? If yes, where?

7 Do you think being innocent in this cruel world , is foolishness?

8 Describe yourself in one sentence.

9 what is the strangest dream you can remember?

10 Who can be trusted among politicians, actors , singers, girls or boys? [quite funny, no?😂]

11 What do you think people think of India? Are there more traitors or patriots ?

 

 

5th Asian school Hockey Championship

As an Indian, I should respect our national game i.e., Hockey!! Yeah, I respect it, but seriously I didn’t had any interest in playing or watching it , but the coincidence of having the first match of kind ( international level) in my city , and also envolvement of my father’s department, made me curious of watching it atleast once!!

There were 8 asian countries namly China, Nepal, Sri lanka, Malaysia, UAE, Thailand, Singapore and ofcourse India.. in the tournament , held from 3rd April to 11th April in the Aishbagh stadium !! The Asian school sport federation has allotted the hosting of Championship to India..

Matches were like random countries with one another!! And that’s obvious that someone would love to watch their own country playing rather anyone else’s.. So was with me too!!

First day there was a big rally or say welcoming of the ‘Guests’ ceremony.. All the countries marched with their nation’s flag , ceremony going to start , but china got an objection, “wrong flag”(it wasn’t wrong, some stars were missing in the flag, that’s it!😶) , so the rally was at a hold for few minutes , with this there were folk dances, songs and all…

Above picture taken from the internet 

Malaysia trounced China 14-0 in the inaugural  match..that’s the first match!!

Not that good photography..😅

Likewise the matches continued, and the day, when I atlast went to see the tournament, it was the match between India-China and Malaysia-Singapore one after the other..

Everyone thought india will loose, and so much less public was present there! China tried very hard, very very hard.., but Indian team had also promised it’ll not let India’s head down this time!! Some people were doing commentary that how players should play and all, it’s sarcastic , that if they knew so much about the game and all, they’ll prove so “well” players , they must had on the place of the coach or whatever..

 India did a fantastic job.., like seriously , most of the people think India is lacking behind compared to China, but by this performance , the team proved it wrong!!

India beat china by  110 , great!!!! After winning the match, the players were awarded a huge round of applause , with meeting the Secretary of the School Education Department, (M.P) Mrs. Dipti Gaur Mukharjee !! It must be a very proud moment for all .. This way India crossed the semi finals and entered the finals to be held the day after!!

Next match was between Malaysia and Singapore , where Malaysia beat Singapore after a short struggle with scores as 12-1..

So the next day, India versus Malaysia, we (actually me, I don’t know any other too, cuz there are many traitors here😰) prayed , ” Pls pls pls India should win , India should win…” The Indian school team registered an emphatic 5-1 win against Malaysia to win the 5th Asian School Hockey Tournament !✌ 

   In the match for third and fourth place, Singapore beat China 3-1 in a nail- biting shootout after the team ended the regulation time in 1-1 stalemate..

This tournament made me love our National game Hockey..:) China better luck next time(if by chance.. :roll:) 😂This isn’t hatred, or something, this is the pride, self respect those school players earned for themselves and for the country..

 

 


Trip to Mumbai#5

After visiting the Shivaji Museum .., we went towards our bus!! There we had food, gazing the arabian sea and dozens of couples sitting there on it’s boundary😅 !! 

After finishing our lunch, we started again for the visit to gateway of India and famous Taj hotel ( also known as 26/11 , cuz on this date there had been an attack by terrorists taking lives of 164  innocents and wounding 3oo+ people which blew the relation between India- Pak) .., so come back from the history of Taj palace hotel, as we reached the Gateway of India, we were told to roam and do whatever we wanna and after 15 min come back to a particular place!! I just took a look on the gateway and what was carved on it , so as directed we took some slefies with our cameras (ya camera , Phones were BANNED)  , Gateway of India was erected to commemorate the landing of KING GEORGE 5 and QUEEN MARY in 1911.

After coming back, 15 minutes later ,there was a group photograph , we all stood in the line; cameramen asked Ready?? , we replied Cheese….(our method to tell we’re ready) , then only some foreigners came ,stood beside the photographer , and started taking pictures in the same direction we all stood!!😂 Like seriously, when think about that ,we now too are confused that why did they do so?!!😮 god knows..

Actually Taj hotel and Gateway of india are just opposite to each other , we can see them standing in between .. 

At last, time to go back home,  we knew we’d miss all these experiences damn much.., went to the railway station  with a thought to come back soon with our parents.., and enjoy again as we did this time..!! Oh , I forgot to mention it’s(lonavala) most famous thing that’s Maganlal chikki!! It’s great, chikki is something made from groundnut and jaggery.. I disliked it, but after I tasted it in lonavala, I’ve started eating it:)

We hated going back home from The City Of Dreams..I wasn’t just taking the bangles, imagica’s bottle , some keyrings, and the chikki which I bought ,but also I made new friends there( my classmates only, but with better understanding ) , Lovely experience , some washable dirty clothes😓, and ya some pictures too😁!! 

Next morning reached back to hometown ,there one by one got out of the rail, searching for relatives , I found my whole family present there waiting for me to come out, as I saw them, firstly my bro , to whom I passed my luggage😅(brother’s work;)) , hugged mumma and daddy!! 🙂 Here the first journey alone ends with much of the experiences and learnings..!!😇

Trip to Mumbai#4

First time experience of Maharashtra and that too of its most famous place Imagica.., the best thing there was their welcome dance and rally!! Fabulous it was … They sang imagi-ca ki yayi yayi ya , imagi-ca ki yayi yayi ya..!! 

In the rally there were cartoon princesses , 7 dwarfs & all other characters!!  Oh my god , it was seriously one of the best experience.., to see it search it on YouTube you’ll get it!! I guarantee you’ll love it.. the list is too long !!

Let’s move on to the evening , weren’t we ready to go and not was our fun stopped..!! But we had to leave…, Then we went to the hotel , one more surprise was waiting for us there!! As we reached there , we were told to take rest for half an hour then wear colour dress( as we had to move and roam only in our school dress code) damn excited..

DJ night…..There were 4 ACs in that room, but as we started , my class teacher , some other teachers & of course our favourite sis. Shalini , Danced with we 4 .. (not everyone was on time!!!)  As time passed , we were sweating like anything, but how can we stop, no place to stand , some girls did naagin dance too😂 !! 

This is Mumbai☝ , I mean Arabian sea and on it is Bandra- worli bridge!!

It was great!! Next day we went to Mumbai(before we were there in Lonavala) 

There we went to a sea shore , clicked some photos, our cameramen was ready to click the photo , then only some girls came , stood beside & started starring at that person.., actually they thought that he was in service there and would click their photo as well afterwards , on this we laughed and too our teachers weren’t able to control!!😂

Some said ‘say cheese’ , from the other side , a voice came saying ‘say paneer’ and then someone again said ‘ butter paneer’ ,& last stroke was by my dearest class teacher ,she said ‘ say butter chicken..’ again we laughed like what the hell was going on, people will think were we mad or what ?!!!

Then time to go to Shivaji Museum also known as prince of Wales museum ..,one of the best place for knowing the history of India!! This was also superb , but problem was ,it was slightly summer time and the weather was much moist , that was the worst thing there.. but fine , it wasn’t that big than the love and life back enthusiasm..